So, in a effort to make this logical rather than emotional, I decided try a strategy that I use when making goals and plans for my students...think about things from their perspective. What are they thinking? How would they react and why?
So, I started thinking about what O would say, if he had the chance, to kindergarten. And, this series was born. This is the first of many letters I will write to kindergarten, from O's perspective. To ask questions. To discover solutions.
Dear Kindergarten,
My mom keeps telling me that I will be going to see you after I am five. When we go to my sisters' school, mom points to a playground and tells me, "that's kindergarten." I say, "I don't want to go to kindergarten."
Everyone in my family seems so excited for me to go to kindergarten. They tell me about the things I will do. It sounds like too much.
I know that I will learn about letters and numbers in kindergarten. I like those. I already know the letters and can make words with them. Some of my favorite words are...trains, cars, Thomas. Do you like those words? What if I don't like the words you teach me?
I have also been told that I can bring my own snack to school. That makes me happy. Maybe I will bring goldfish or angry bird graham crackers. Will there be people that give me food to try in kindergarten? I hope not. That's too hard.
My sister tells me there will be lots of new friends in kindergarten. But, I already have friends, at MY school. And, I know that "lots" is too many. I don't like having too many friends. Plus, I don't know these new friends. Will they sit too close to me? What will they smell like? Will they ask me lots of questions? Will they be loud?
I know I will have a new teacher in kindergarten. I like MY teacher. Her name is Miss Katie. When she is gone, I don't like it. It is hard to meet new teachers. Sometimes they want me to talk or sing or eat things I don't want to eat. I want my mom to tell my new teacher all the things I don't like and all the things that are too hard. I hope she does. I will tell her lots of times, just to make sure.
Kindergarten, do you have circle time or centers? What about computers? I really like those. What color carpets do you have? Will there be a special square for me? Red and blue are my favorite colors. Maybe, you will have a red or blue square for me. I know you have recess. I saw the playground. Will I have to go on the slide? Because, the slide is too hard for me. Do you have bikes? I like those.
You can see, I have a lot of questions. I want to know who you are, kindergarten.
O
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4 comments:
This is a very powerful piece written from O's perspective. It helps those who don't understand what it's like to be him or you for that matter. I hope writing these letters is healing for you! I can sense your urge to protect him.
I hesitate to type a thing!
As stated above, your urge to protect your children rings loud and clear.
It is beautiful and refreshing. I feel there is so much to learn from you. I've really enjoyed reading through your blog and am eager to follow along!
when my oldest started kindergarden I cried the first hour and panicked the next 2 hrs..I cold not image anyone would be watching her the way I do...I watched the clock..tick tick tick..it never moved...by the time 11;20 came and she got off the bus happy, I felt like I had survived 10 heart attacks...somehow we all managed and thrived...
good luck!!!!
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Funny, it sounds a lot like Alex. Poor sweeties.
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