Drama Mama

Having kids changes you. Some things change for the better, and other things, well...they're not as good. I used to be a thinker, an over-analyzer. After having kids, I think a lot more. Too much!

This summer my oldest daughter performed in a local children's musical. It was A's first time performing with this group, so there were a lot of unknowns. One of the things that made me the most anxious was the idea of meeting and interacting with the other moms. After four years of supporting A in cheer, I had become accustomed to those moms, but drama moms. What were they going to be like?
You know what? They were normal. Or, maybe I should say, they were no different from me. 
Sure. There were some that were experienced theater moms, but most were new to the program. Some were confident, but others were insecure and needed just as much guidance as I did. 
I'm not sure why I always do that. Second-guess myself and my abilities. But, I do it. Every. Single. Time.
I am so grateful that I did not pass that trait onto my oldest. While I'm sure she has some fears and does get down when she doesn't think she can do something, she is generally self-confident and is not afraid to try new things. There are days when I think I should be taking lessons from her.   Here are a few of the lessons on life, from the theater (and my ten year old) that I learned this summer:

No matter how many times your headpiece falls off, keep putting it back on...with a smile. 

Always sing and dance like no one is watching, even when hundreds of people are staring at you.

Never let anything distract you from what you really love.

In order to be good at something, you have to work hard. Working hard, when it's something you love, is fun.

No matter what's going on back stage, the show must go on.

Note:  These photos were taken by a professional photographer and I purchased them.